Friday, May 13, 2011
Hawk Mountain, Cadet Ranger School - The Beginning
Monday, May 9, 2011
The Key To Success
Recently I watched a video on Youtube entitled "The Key To Success". The man in the video answered the key to success is simple. "Try Harder." I would agree with him 100% on that concept. But I also believe there are other things that are required for success. One of those things ladies and gentlemen are "Goals". Little ones and huge ones, they both play a major puzzle piece in your key to success. Think of success like this: You have an undone puzzle with the pieces all over the floor. Not only that but, those pieces are mixed in with puzzle pieces from 10 different puzzles. It is major hard work to find what pieces go where. That hard work goes into the "Try Harder" or "Never Give Up" analogy. Then the correct puzzle pieces can be known as your goals in life. Once you get them all together into a beautiful picture of a sunset, you have truly reached success. Boom, I just blew your mind, didn't I?
- “When it is obvious that the goals cannot be reached, don't adjust the goals, adjust the action steps.” - This quote is said by Confucius an ancient Chinese Philosopher. Once again it goes into the "Try Harder" analogy. Remember kids, the goals that are worth it, are usually harder to get too.
- "If life were a string, without goals it would be a yarn ball." - This quote is from myself. Hopefully noone will plagiarize, as it is very valuable to me. And I shared it with everyone in hopes it will help someone. In short it means that without goals, your life is unguided and often can result in failure and feeling lost.
Friday, May 6, 2011
The Teen Decision Process
There is a big problem with the teens of today. It's all based off of the decision process. This process is mainly influenced by the typical hormones. But also strongly influenced by parenting and experiences in the teens life. Let’s admit it, American parents suck these days. They don't know how to be strict enough, or laid back enough. I either see the DI (Drill Instructor) type of parents. Or I see the hippie parents, that just don't give a “you know what”.
To figure out how this affects a teen thought process we must first look into the brain of a teenager. A National Institutes of Health study shows us that the human brain does not develop until age 25. Which means in the teenage years, it is still building. And during childhood is when the brain develops the most. We treat our little kids like retards, when in actuality they are little geniuses. Ever wonder how you learned your first language, but how it's 100X more difficult to learn another language? It because your brain was absorbing more when you were a child.
With this concept in mind if a child learns very rapidly around bad parenting, that child will grow up with bad skills of their own. They learn from bad parents to be bad people. But, if you are a good equal balance of strict and loose enough it is expected that your child will grow up more successful. I find myself to be more successful than the average teen. My parents and grandparents were just like that. Sometimes they would kick my butt. But sometimes they would let me stay up late to watch a Scooby Doo movie. It's all about balance.
But I've stayed away from the topic at hand far enough. The second largest factor in the teen though process is hormones. Hormones have always contributed to bad behavior and thought processes. But could the hormones be getting more severe? Multiple studies have indicated that milk and other meat products which contain growth hormones can lead to earlier sexual maturity and a larger hormone growth. My point, teens are getting hornier. Combine that with the amount of porn on the internet. Amount of drugs available. The undeveloped brain. And the amount of bad parents. And you have a big pile of stupid people. And it has only been getting worse every year. In fact I'll admit as a teenager sometimes I feel like going crazy.
With this kind of thought process our children of America are going to grow up spoiled, mean, disrespectful, and unmotivated. It seems more and more to me that these teenagers don't think of the future. They act like a person would if he knew he was going to die. News flash, Most of these teenagers will live for another 60+ years. Do they honestly think that funny tattoo of the word S*#) is going to be funny when they are doing that in their pants at age 75. Or maybe the huge amount of pot they're doing will just magically have no effect. IT'S SMOKE!!! Usually when you escape out of a house fire they tell you not to breathe the smoke.
Thursday, May 5, 2011
Inside The Mind of a Micro-Manager
- Ignore them the best you can without risking loss. They hate this and often feel helpless if they can't get you to do something.
- Try and reason with them. While this doesn't work nearly as much as it should. It does sometimes have a good effect.
- Don't put up with them. Most are insecure and unsure of life. Confront them of their screw-ups. Sometimes showing a little teeth is necessary
- If you have to do it their way, try to bend the rules a little bit without risking loss. If they told you a pepperoni pizza would be the best for the office party, get a box of sausage pizza too.
Anyways I really enjoyed writing today; look forward to more topics to come.